Trick Room walls exist, and they use Relaxed. 10% more Defense, 10% less Speed. That Speed drop actually helps under Trick Room. Mesprit is one of the most popular Relaxed users, alongside Ting-Lu and Amoonguss.
Relaxed raises Defense by 10% and lowers Speed by 10%. Slow physical walls, often used in Trick Room. 100 Pokemon competitively run this nature.
| # | Pokemon | Tier | Role | Ability | +Def | -Spe | Spe |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Mesprit PSYCHIC | S | Bulky Support | Levitate | 105+15 | 80-10 | 80 |
| 2 | Ting-Lu DARKGROUND | S | Bulky Support | Vesselofruin | 125+17 | 45-7 | 45 |
| 3 | Amoonguss GRASSPOISON | A | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 70+12 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 4 | Alomomola WATER | A | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 80+13 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 5 | Tyranitar ROCKDARK | A | Bulky Support | Sand Stream | 110+16 | 61-9 | 61 |
| 6 | Slowbro WATERPSYCHIC | A | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 110+16 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 7 | Torkoal FIRE | A | Bulky Support | Drought | 140+19 | 20-4 | 20 |
| 8 | Rhyperior GROUNDROCK | A | Bulky Support | Solidrock | 130+18 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 9 | Celesteela STEEL | A | Bulky Support | Beastboost | 103+15 | 61-9 | 61 |
| 10 | Bronzong STEELPSYCHIC | A | Bulky Support | Levitate | 116+16 | 33-6 | 33 |
| 11 | Mimikyu GHOSTFAIRY | A | Bulky Support | Disguise | 80+13 | 96-12 | 96 |
| 12 | Jirachi STEELPSYCHIC | A | Bulky Support | Serenegrace | 100+15 | 100-12 | 100 |
| 13 | Uxie PSYCHIC | A | Bulky Support | Levitate | 130+18 | 95-12 | 95 |
| 14 | Whimsicott GRASSFAIRY | A | Bulky Support | Prankster | 85+13 | 116-14 | 116 |
| 15 | Mudsdale GROUND | A | Bulky Support | Stamina | 100+15 | 35-6 | 35 |
| 16 | Diancie ROCKFAIRY | A | Bulky Support | Clearbody | 150+20 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 17 | Regirock ROCK | A | Bulky Support | Clearbody | 200+25 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 18 | Swampert WATERGROUND | B | Bulky Support | Torrent | 90+14 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 19 | Ferrothorn GRASSSTEEL | B | Bulky Support | Iron Barbs | 131+18 | 20-4 | 20 |
| 20 | Slowking WATERPSYCHIC | B | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 80+13 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 21 | Corviknight STEEL | B | Bulky Support | Pressure | 105+15 | 67-9 | 67 |
| 22 | Carbink ROCKFAIRY | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 150+20 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 23 | Gastrodon WATERGROUND | B | Bulky Support | Stormdrain | 68+12 | 39-6 | 39 |
| 24 | Pelipper WATER | B | Bulky Support | Drizzle | 100+15 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 25 | Scrafty DARKFIGHTING | B | Physical Tank | Intimidate | 115+16 | 58-8 | 58 |
| 26 | Forretress BUGSTEEL | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 140+19 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 27 | Cresselia PSYCHIC | B | Bulky Support | Levitate | 110+16 | 85-11 | 85 |
| 28 | Mandibuzz DARK | B | Bulky Support | Overcoat | 105+15 | 80-10 | 80 |
| 29 | Shuckle BUGROCK | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 230+28 | 5-3 | 5 |
| 30 | Quagsire WATERGROUND | B | Bulky Support | Unaware | 85+13 | 35-6 | 35 |
| 31 | Necrozma PSYCHIC | B | Bulky Support | Prismarmor | 101+15 | 79-10 | 79 |
| 32 | Porygon2 NORMAL | B | Bulky Support | Trace | 90+14 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 33 | Dusclops GHOST | B | Bulky Support | Frisk | 130+18 | 25-5 | 25 |
| 34 | Clodsire POISONGROUND | B | Bulky Support | Waterabsorb | 60+11 | 20-4 | 20 |
| 35 | Orthworm STEEL | B | Bulky Support | Eartheater | 145+19 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 36 | Weezing POISON | B | Bulky Support | Neutralizinggas | 120+17 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 37 | Abomasnow GRASSICE | B | Bulky Support | Snow Warning | 75+12 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 38 | Registeel STEEL | B | Bulky Support | Clearbody | 150+20 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 39 | Stakataka ROCKSTEEL | B | Bulky Support | Beastboost | 211+26 | 13-4 | 13 |
| 40 | Hippowdon GROUND | B | Bulky Support | Sand Stream | 118+17 | 47-7 | 47 |
| 41 | Spiritomb GHOSTDARK | B | Bulky Support | Infiltrator | 108+16 | 35-6 | 35 |
| 42 | Lapras WATERICE | B | Bulky Support | Waterabsorb | 80+13 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 43 | Coalossal ROCKFIRE | B | Bulky Support | Flame Body | 120+17 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 44 | Scream Tail FAIRYPSYCHIC | B | Bulky Support | Protosynthesis | 99+15 | 111-14 | 111 |
| 45 | Bastiodon ROCKSTEEL | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 168+22 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 46 | Regice ICE | B | Bulky Support | Clearbody | 100+15 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 47 | Frosmoth ICEBUG | B | Bulky Support | Icescales | 60+11 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 48 | Avalugg ICE | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 184+23 | 28-5 | 28 |
| 49 | Meowstic PSYCHIC | B | Bulky Support | Prankster | 76+12 | 104-13 | 104 |
| 50 | Dudunsparce NORMAL | B | Bulky Support | Serenegrace | 80+13 | 55-8 | 55 |
| 51 | Meloetta NORMALPSYCHIC | B | Special Attacker | Serenegrace | 77+12 | 90-11 | 90 |
| 52 | Dusknoir GHOST | B | Bulky Support | Pressure | 135+18 | 45-7 | 45 |
| 53 | Electabuzz ELECTRIC | B | Bulky Support | Vitalspirit | 57+10 | 105-13 | 105 |
| 54 | Haunter GHOSTPOISON | B | Bulky Support | Levitate | 45+9 | 95-12 | 95 |
| 55 | Probopass ROCKSTEEL | B | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 145+19 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 56 | Tangrowth GRASS | C | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 125+17 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 57 | Xatu PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Magic Bounce | 70+12 | 95-12 | 95 |
| 58 | Clefairy FAIRY | C | Bulky Support | Friendguard | 48+10 | 35-6 | 35 |
| 59 | Dipplin GRASSDRAGON | C | Bulky Support | Stickyhold | 110+16 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 60 | Nidoqueen POISONGROUND | C | Bulky Support | Poison Point | 87+13 | 76-10 | 76 |
| 61 | Ditto NORMAL | C | Bulky Support | Imposter | 48+10 | 48-7 | 48 |
| 62 | Oranguru NORMALPSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Innerfocus | 80+13 | 60-8 | 60 |
| 63 | Cofagrigus GHOST | C | Bulky Support | Mummy | 145+19 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 64 | Runerigus GROUNDGHOST | C | Bulky Support | Wanderingspirit | 145+19 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 65 | Fuecoco FIRE | C | Bulky Support | Unaware | 59+11 | 36-6 | 36 |
| 66 | Claydol GROUNDPSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Levitate | 105+15 | 75-10 | 75 |
| 67 | Hattrem PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Magic Bounce | 65+11 | 49-7 | 49 |
| 68 | Parasect BUGGRASS | C | Bulky Support | Dryskin | 80+13 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 69 | Pangoro FIGHTINGDARK | C | Physical Attacker | Ironfist | 78+13 | 58-8 | 58 |
| 70 | Aromatisse FAIRY | C | Bulky Support | Aromaveil | 72+12 | 29-5 | 29 |
| 71 | Pincurchin ELECTRIC | C | Bulky Support | Electric Surge | 95+14 | 15-4 | 15 |
| 72 | Swoobat PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Simple | 55+10 | 114-14 | 114 |
| 73 | Lurantis GRASS | C | Mixed Attacker | Contrary | 90+14 | 45-7 | 45 |
| 74 | Flareon FIRE | C | Physical Tank | Guts | 60+11 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 75 | Doublade STEELGHOST | C | Bulky Support | Noguard | 150+20 | 35-6 | 35 |
| 76 | Charjabug BUGELECTRIC | C | Bulky Support | Battery | 95+14 | 36-6 | 36 |
| 77 | Appletun GRASSDRAGON | C | Bulky Support | Thickfat | 80+13 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 78 | Shiinotic GRASSFAIRY | C | Bulky Support | Effect Spore | 80+13 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 79 | Carracosta WATERROCK | C | Bulky Support | Solidrock | 133+18 | 32-6 | 32 |
| 80 | Vespiquen BUG | C | Bulky Support | Pressure | 102+15 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 81 | Steelix STEELGROUND | C | Bulky Support | Sturdy | 200+25 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 82 | Walrein ICEWATER | C | Mixed Attacker | Thickfat | 90+14 | 65-9 | 65 |
| 83 | Audino NORMAL | C | Bulky Support | Regenerator | 86+13 | 50-7 | 50 |
| 84 | Rabsca BUGPSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Synchronize | 85+13 | 45-7 | 45 |
| 85 | Wobbuffet PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Telepathy | 58+11 | 33-6 | 33 |
| 86 | Pyukumuku WATER | C | Bulky Support | Unaware | 130+18 | 5-3 | 5 |
| 87 | Ferroseed GRASSSTEEL | C | Bulky Support | Iron Barbs | 91+14 | 10-3 | 10 |
| 88 | Carnivine GRASS | C | Bulky Support | Levitate | 72+12 | 46-7 | 46 |
| 89 | Torracat FIRE | C | Bulky Support | Intimidate | 50+10 | 90-11 | 90 |
| 90 | Lickitung NORMAL | C | Bulky Support | Owntempo | 75+12 | 30-5 | 30 |
| 91 | Doduo NORMAL | C | Mixed Attacker | Tangledfeet | 45+9 | 75-10 | 75 |
| 92 | Beheeyem PSYCHIC | C | Special Tank | Analytic | 75+12 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 93 | Drowzee PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Forewarn | 45+9 | 42-7 | 42 |
| 94 | Cherrim GRASS | C | Bulky Support | Flowergift | 70+12 | 85-11 | 85 |
| 95 | Hypno PSYCHIC | C | Bulky Support | Insomnia | 70+12 | 67-9 | 67 |
| 96 | Type: Null NORMAL | C | Bulky Support | Battlearmor | 95+14 | 59-8 | 59 |
| 97 | Ampharos ELECTRIC | C | Bulky Support | Static | 85+13 | 55-8 | 55 |
| 98 | Paras BUGGRASS | D | Bulky Support | Dryskin | 55+10 | 25-5 | 25 |
| 99 | Wishiwashi WATER | D | Bulky Support | Schooling | 20+7 | 40-6 | 40 |
| 100 | Gothorita PSYCHIC | D | Bulky Support | Shadowtag | 70+12 | 55-8 | 55 |
Mesprit
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
105 +15Spe
80Ting-Lu
DARK GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Vesselofruin+Def
125 +17Spe
45Amoonguss
GRASS POISON
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
70 +12Spe
30Alomomola
WATER
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
80 +13Spe
65Tyranitar
ROCK DARK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sand Stream+Def
110 +16Spe
61Slowbro
WATER PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
110 +16Spe
30Torkoal
FIRE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Drought+Def
140 +19Spe
20Rhyperior
GROUND ROCK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Solidrock+Def
130 +18Spe
40Celesteela
STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Beastboost+Def
103 +15Spe
61Bronzong
STEEL PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
116 +16Spe
33Mimikyu
GHOST FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Disguise+Def
80 +13Spe
96Jirachi
STEEL PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Serenegrace+Def
100 +15Spe
100Uxie
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
130 +18Spe
95Whimsicott
GRASS FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Prankster+Def
85 +13Spe
116Mudsdale
GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Stamina+Def
100 +15Spe
35Diancie
ROCK FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Clearbody+Def
150 +20Spe
50Regirock
ROCK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Clearbody+Def
200 +25Spe
50Swampert
WATER GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Torrent+Def
90 +14Spe
60Ferrothorn
GRASS STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Iron Barbs+Def
131 +18Spe
20Slowking
WATER PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
80 +13Spe
30Corviknight
STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Pressure+Def
105 +15Spe
67Carbink
ROCK FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
150 +20Spe
50Gastrodon
WATER GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Stormdrain+Def
68 +12Spe
39Pelipper
WATER
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Drizzle+Def
100 +15Spe
65Scrafty
DARK FIGHTING
Role
Physical TankAbility
Intimidate+Def
115 +16Spe
58Forretress
BUG STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
140 +19Spe
40Cresselia
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
110 +16Spe
85Mandibuzz
DARK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Overcoat+Def
105 +15Spe
80Shuckle
BUG ROCK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
230 +28Spe
5Quagsire
WATER GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Unaware+Def
85 +13Spe
35Necrozma
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Prismarmor+Def
101 +15Spe
79Porygon2
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Trace+Def
90 +14Spe
60Dusclops
GHOST
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Frisk+Def
130 +18Spe
25Clodsire
POISON GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Waterabsorb+Def
60 +11Spe
20Orthworm
STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Eartheater+Def
145 +19Spe
65Weezing
POISON
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Neutralizinggas+Def
120 +17Spe
60Abomasnow
GRASS ICE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Snow Warning+Def
75 +12Spe
60Registeel
STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Clearbody+Def
150 +20Spe
50Stakataka
ROCK STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Beastboost+Def
211 +26Spe
13Hippowdon
GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sand Stream+Def
118 +17Spe
47Spiritomb
GHOST DARK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Infiltrator+Def
108 +16Spe
35Lapras
WATER ICE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Waterabsorb+Def
80 +13Spe
60Coalossal
ROCK FIRE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Flame Body+Def
120 +17Spe
30Scream Tail
FAIRY PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Protosynthesis+Def
99 +15Spe
111Bastiodon
ROCK STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
168 +22Spe
30Regice
ICE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Clearbody+Def
100 +15Spe
50Frosmoth
ICE BUG
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Icescales+Def
60 +11Spe
65Avalugg
ICE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
184 +23Spe
28Meowstic
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Prankster+Def
76 +12Spe
104Dudunsparce
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Serenegrace+Def
80 +13Spe
55Meloetta
NORMAL PSYCHIC
Role
Special AttackerAbility
Serenegrace+Def
77 +12Spe
90Dusknoir
GHOST
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Pressure+Def
135 +18Spe
45Electabuzz
ELECTRIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Vitalspirit+Def
57 +10Spe
105Haunter
GHOST POISON
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
45 +9Spe
95Probopass
ROCK STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
145 +19Spe
40Tangrowth
GRASS
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
125 +17Spe
50Xatu
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Magic Bounce+Def
70 +12Spe
95Clefairy
FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Friendguard+Def
48 +10Spe
35Dipplin
GRASS DRAGON
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Stickyhold+Def
110 +16Spe
40Nidoqueen
POISON GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Poison Point+Def
87 +13Spe
76Ditto
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Imposter+Def
48 +10Spe
48Oranguru
NORMAL PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Innerfocus+Def
80 +13Spe
60Cofagrigus
GHOST
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Mummy+Def
145 +19Spe
30Runerigus
GROUND GHOST
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Wanderingspirit+Def
145 +19Spe
30Fuecoco
FIRE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Unaware+Def
59 +11Spe
36Claydol
GROUND PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
105 +15Spe
75Hattrem
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Magic Bounce+Def
65 +11Spe
49Parasect
BUG GRASS
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Dryskin+Def
80 +13Spe
30Pangoro
FIGHTING DARK
Role
Physical AttackerAbility
Ironfist+Def
78 +13Spe
58Aromatisse
FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Aromaveil+Def
72 +12Spe
29Pincurchin
ELECTRIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Electric Surge+Def
95 +14Spe
15Swoobat
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Simple+Def
55 +10Spe
114Lurantis
GRASS
Role
Mixed AttackerAbility
Contrary+Def
90 +14Spe
45Flareon
FIRE
Role
Physical TankAbility
Guts+Def
60 +11Spe
65Doublade
STEEL GHOST
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Noguard+Def
150 +20Spe
35Charjabug
BUG ELECTRIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Battery+Def
95 +14Spe
36Appletun
GRASS DRAGON
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Thickfat+Def
80 +13Spe
30Shiinotic
GRASS FAIRY
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Effect Spore+Def
80 +13Spe
30Carracosta
WATER ROCK
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Solidrock+Def
133 +18Spe
32Vespiquen
BUG
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Pressure+Def
102 +15Spe
40Steelix
STEEL GROUND
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Sturdy+Def
200 +25Spe
30Walrein
ICE WATER
Role
Mixed AttackerAbility
Thickfat+Def
90 +14Spe
65Audino
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Regenerator+Def
86 +13Spe
50Rabsca
BUG PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Synchronize+Def
85 +13Spe
45Wobbuffet
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Telepathy+Def
58 +11Spe
33Pyukumuku
WATER
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Unaware+Def
130 +18Spe
5Ferroseed
GRASS STEEL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Iron Barbs+Def
91 +14Spe
10Carnivine
GRASS
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Levitate+Def
72 +12Spe
46Torracat
FIRE
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Intimidate+Def
50 +10Spe
90Lickitung
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Owntempo+Def
75 +12Spe
30Doduo
NORMAL
Role
Mixed AttackerAbility
Tangledfeet+Def
45 +9Spe
75Beheeyem
PSYCHIC
Role
Special TankAbility
Analytic+Def
75 +12Spe
40Drowzee
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Forewarn+Def
45 +9Spe
42Cherrim
GRASS
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Flowergift+Def
70 +12Spe
85Hypno
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Insomnia+Def
70 +12Spe
67Type: Null
NORMAL
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Battlearmor+Def
95 +14Spe
59Ampharos
ELECTRIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Static+Def
85 +13Spe
55Paras
BUG GRASS
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Dryskin+Def
55 +10Spe
25Wishiwashi
WATER
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Schooling+Def
20 +7Spe
40Gothorita
PSYCHIC
Role
Bulky SupportAbility
Shadowtag+Def
70 +12Spe
55+10%Defense
-10%Speed
Flavor Preference
Likes Sour, dislikes Sweet
Competitive Role
Slow physical walls, often used in Trick Room.
Relaxed vs Bold
Choose Relaxed
+Defense / -Speed
- Pokemon that need to check physical threats (use +Def)
- Pokemon that need to check special threats (use +SpD)
- Walls and tanks that rarely attack
Choose Bold
+Defense / -Attack
- Defensive Pokemon that still need attacking power
- Pokemon that run both physical and special moves
How to Get
SynchronizeLead with a Relaxed Pokemon that has the Synchronize ability. Wild Pokemon will match its nature. (Gen 3+)
BreedingGive the parent with Relaxed nature an Everstone. The offspring will inherit it. (100% since Gen 5)
Nature MintUse a Relaxed Mint to change stat effects to Relaxed. The original nature name stays but stats change. (Gen 8+)
Other +Defense Natures
What does the Relaxed nature do in Pokemon?
Relaxed gives your Pokemon 10% more Defense at the cost of Speed. That tradeoff works best when the lowered stat isn't part of your moveset. Pokemon with Relaxed nature prefer Sour flavor and dislike Sweet.
What are the best Relaxed nature Pokemon?
Competitively, Mesprit, Ting-Lu, Amoonguss, and Alomomola run Relaxed most often. The +Defense boost complements their role, and the -Speed penalty barely affects their game plan.
Is Relaxed a good nature for competitive Pokemon?
For the right Pokemon, Relaxed is one of the best natures you can pick. The -Speed drop actually helps under Trick Room, where slower Pokemon move first. Just don't slap it on something that uses Speed-based moves.
How do I get a Relaxed nature Pokemon?
Breeding with an Everstone is the most reliable approach since Gen 5. The parent holding it passes its nature to every offspring. Synchronize works for wild catches. And if you already have the Pokemon, a Relaxed Mint from the Battle Tower changes the stat effects to Relaxed.
Should I use Relaxed or Bold?
Short answer: Relaxed for Trick Room wall, Bold for standard wall. There's no universal best. Check your Pokemon's base stats and common threats in the format you're playing to decide which tradeoff is better.